Mitts Thyme

I’ve been a part of Jake’s community for several months now, and over time it has become increasingly uncomfortable to ignore certain patterns of disappointing behavior. I understand how it can feel to give a lot financially and emotionally, and still feel isolated and tossed aside. Watching someone pour so much into others and not receive the connection they’re hoping for is hard to see. That said, those feelings don’t excuse what has followed. Jake’s actions towards creators he feels have wronged him, or who’s success he is envious of, feels retaliatory rather than reflective. His tendency to inflate his sense of reality, spread insinuations and false accusations, create tension with successful creators and their teams, and blind disregard for personal boundaries and privacy have become his default reactions to the pain he’s experienced both on the app, and off. When admiration or support isn’t returned in the way he expects, the response often shifts into public criticism or actions that seem intended to undermine. This doesn’t just affect feelings—it affects real people and real livelihoods. Rumors, antagonistic gifting, sharing of personal information, images, and private conversations can do lasting damage, especially on a platform where reputation directly impacts income and mental health. Watching this play out has been frustrating and disappointing, particularly because it creates unnecessary hostility in a space that should feel collaborative and safe. Jake is not incapable of change, but change requires accountability. Pain and insecurity don’t justify harming others, and they don’t make destructive behavior acceptable. I hope to see a clear shift toward self-awareness and respect for others. The attacks on others and his demoralizing comments have to stop.

Trenten is caring, considerate, driven, and kind. I am biased as someone who supports him, but I will not let someone else tarnish his reputation out of their own jealousy and disappointment that they can’t get what they want.

Narcissistic abuser who preys off gay gifters who he makes promises to with no intent to keep.